In today's society, grandparents are often called upon to raise their grandchildren. While this can be a challenging situation, there are many benefits to being a grandparent caregiver. The previous post gave an overview of the “Grandfamily”, including some important benefits.  This blog post explores more of the benefits of raising your grandchildren. These include:

Learning Patience:

One of the most significant benefits of raising your grandchildren is the opportunity to learn patience. Raising children requires a lot of time, energy, and attention, which can be exhausting. However, the patience and persistence that come with raising children can be valuable skills in all areas of life. Think “What is really important?” Don’t sweat the small stuff.


Another benefit of raising grandchildren is the companionship that comes with spending time with them. Children have a unique perspective on life, and spending time with them can be incredibly rewarding. Grandparents and grandchildren can create special bonds that last a lifetime. Appreciate their silliness and insights.

Learning New Technology, Fashion, and Music:

As grandparents age, it can be easy to fall behind on the latest technology, fashion, and music trends. However, raising grandchildren provides an excellent opportunity to stay up to date with these trends. Children are often interested in the latest gadgets, clothing styles, and music, which can be a great way to learn and stay engaged with the world around you.

Understanding Generational Changes:

Raising grandchildren also provides an opportunity to understand generational changes. The world changes quickly, and it can be challenging to keep up with all the new trends, technologies, and cultural shifts. However, being a grandparent caregiver allows you to experience and understand generational changes from a unique perspective.


Another benefit of raising grandchildren is the opportunity to learn flexibility. Children's needs and schedules can be unpredictable, and being a grandparent caregiver requires a lot of adaptability. By learning to be flexible, you can become more adaptable in all areas of life.

Listening Skills:

Raising grandchildren also provides an opportunity to improve listening skills. Children have a lot to say, and it's essential to listen to them carefully. By listening to your grandchildren, you can develop better communication skills and learn to be more empathetic.

Providing Security and Stability for the Children:

One of the most critical benefits of raising grandchildren is the opportunity to provide security and stability for the children. Many children who are raised by their grandparents have experienced trauma or instability in their lives. Being a grandparent caregiver can provide a sense of security and stability that may be missing in their lives.

Providing Knowledge and Wisdom:

Raising grandchildren also allows you to provide knowledge and wisdom that can help them navigate life's challenges. As someone with more life experience, you can provide guidance and support that may not be available elsewhere. You can share your values, beliefs, and life lessons with your grandchildren, helping them to become well-rounded individuals.

If you are considering becoming a grandparent caregiver, it's essential to reach out for support and resources. Many organizations and support groups offer resources and guidance to grandparents raising their grandchildren. These resources ca provide information on legal issues, financial assistance, and emotional support.

In conclusion, there are many benefits to raising your grandchildren, including learning patience, companionship, staying up to date with technology, fashion, and music, understanding generational changes, flexibility, improving listening skills, providing security and stability for the children, and providing knowledge and wisdom. While being a grandparent caregiver can be challenging, the rewards are significant. By focusing on the benefits, you can approach the situation with a positive attitude and create a meaningful and fulfilling experience for yourself and your grandchildren. It's important to remember that every family's situation is unique, and there is no one right way to raise grandchildren. However, by focusing on the benefits, you can build a strong and loving relationship with your grandchildren that will last a lifetime.

  • Thanks for sharing this! I am 53 and my grandparents raised me. While my mother was in the picture, she & I were raised more like siblings. I appreciate the sacrifice my grandparents made in raising me after they did they’re own 3 children. I will forever be grateful to them for all they did for me.
    Good luck in the UBC, and enjoy your grandkids.

  • Danwil Reyes says:

    Raising grandchildren or raising children in general is a nice experience.

  • I think it will be a few years until I have a chance at being a grandparent, but I do appreciate my mom stepping in to help when I was a single mom with my oldest son (he is 25 now!). There is a reason why many families want a “grandmother” type for caregivers.

  • Great information as I was thinking back to when my stepdaughter’s grandmother was raising her and my niece. I can and will share these tips with my son’s friends’ grandparents and great-grand parents who are raising their children and great grand-children which is no, Picnic. Infact one of the gentlemen is in his 80’s what happens to these children if something happens to him?

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